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Love & Hip Hop star Tommie Lee’s daughter went on social media exposing her mother in a series of rather disturbing posts. She’s accusing her mother of trying to trick her into having an abortion while 7 months pregnant. Now it’s generally considered to be dangerous to have an abortion beyond the first trimester and as I recall, it’s illegal in most areas. And what makes it all so bad is the fact that Tommie hasn’t said anything about her daughter’s pregnancy. This might explain why.. because she was busy trying to undermine it.
“I was told by my mother and aunt herself that she had an abortion at 7 months pregnant and that I should get one because it was for the best! The night of my b-day, my grandmother that’s incarcerated called me and told [me] my mother and aunt will be going to the hospital to deliver my aunt baby today.”
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“I’ve been staying cool calm and collected but my aunt and . mother got me to fly to LA thinking my mother was dying only to try and be forced to have an abortion! After I didn’t want it, I was kicked out of the house and forced to find my own way home!!”
Now that is not only extreme, but the fact that all of this is playing out on social media is really something else. And not to let something like this go unanswered, Tommie addressed it on Instagram Live last night.
“Basically, this is a moment of transparency for me. I never address a lot of things. Anything that goes on in my life, I’ve been told, ‘Tommie, just don’t say nothing. Let it blow over. It’s going to blow over. I don’t agree with addressing family matter on social media. I know that at the end of the day, the people that you’re talking to, they don’t care. At the end of the day, it’s humorous for them. It’s a laugh, it’s a kiki for them. They’re going to go on about their life, about their business…
My take on abortion on anything of that nature is this—the reason why I feel so strongly about that opinion to have a say so about their body is because this is something that you are never going to be able to undo. You’re never going to be able to undo having a child. And ultimately I’ve come from a broken home. It caused us to make some weird decisions because ultimately our parents wasn’t there. We didn’t have nobody to look up to. You’re not given a manuscript on how to parent. There’s no book out to show you when you leave her, how to address x,y,z.
So me, I would rather a teen live they life. My child that I think so highly of and that I love, I don’t want her to ever face the things that I face. I want you to be in your dorm room. I want you to complete high school. I want you to have wild parties. I want you to live, live, live out these years of your life because you never get them back. You’re never going to be a teenager again, ever.
As a mom, I’m disappointed. I’m hurt. I went through a time where I wasn’t eating, I wasn’t posting. I have endorsements. I’m supposed to be posting but I’m in my head about somebody sleeping with my daughter, my daughter having sex. How did it get to that point?”
While I understand Tommie not wanting her daughter to go through what she did, aborting a child at 7 months is essentially murder. The child is almost here. On top of that, you only get one mother and hopefully both parties can realize that. As someone who didn’t speak to their mother for several years only for her to pass not long after reconnecting, I wouldn’t wish that on anyone.
