Basketball Wives star Tami Roman appeared on a recent episode of The Real airing Monday, November 22nd where she revealed having an eating disorder. She said she has has been abusing laxatives and vomiting since the age of 13.
She explained, “I suffer from body dysmorphic disorder. And I’ve been dealing with it since I was 13 years old. And so, a lot of people don’t know it’s either hereditary or genetic or comes from a negative experience, where your self- image has been annihilated. And for me when I was 13 years old, I wanted to be a model. You know we’re from New York, I was tall, I was 5’9, I was thin. And I went to this agency and walked in, and that lady ripped me to shreds. I thought I was perfect. 5’9, less than 120 pounds. Assuredly they’re going to sign me. And she literally stood me in front of a mirror and said you’ve got back folds, you’ve got fat over your knees, you need to do something with your chin, your breasts are sagging. And I went home that night and from that moment, every time I looked at myself in the mirror, I could find something wrong with myself. And I didn’t know what it was, I didn’t know how to deal with it, I just knew well, I’ve got to get skinnier, I’ve got to make myself smaller. I want to be a model.”
Tami Roman Suffers From Body Dysmorphic Disorder, Says It Started At 13: I started abusing laxatives, not eating & throwing up pic.twitter.com/2Bki0Oy71r
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She continued talking about how she would not eat and force her food out to stay thin saying, “And so, I started abusing laxatives, I started not eating, I started throwing up, I started doing everything that I could think of to do to be as skinny as I could possibly be, being obsessive about my weight loss. People don’t realize, that’s why I got my mouth wired in 1993. To be skinny when I was already skinny. And so now today at 50 years old, I’ve been diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes and so my weight fluctuates with that, and you couple that with the disorder and it’s a hard thing to manage. People don’t understand what it is to be a person with this disorder, particularly dealing with the weight issues, because they leave negative comments.”
“Or what they feel are negative comments, but for me, my mind has such a warped sense of perception, it’s a compliment. Tami, you look too frail, Tami, you look like a bobblehead, Tami, you look skinny. In my mind, that goes, well I’m on the right track, I’m getting skinny. And then I don’t know when to stop.”
What this revelation did was change this narrative that eating disorders are something that only involves white women. Other black celebrities who have admitted to suffering from this include Tamar Jackson, Gabourey Sidibe, Lizzo, etc. This sheds light on a hidden demographic and hopefully this will be something she speaks more about because it’s a needed discussion.